My Wife and the Pastor!

Dear Hilda,
please help me! The Pastor in our church has taken over my home. Anything I tell my wife, she goes to ask and tell the Pastor, and it is what he tells her that she will do!I am getting tired of this, and have reported her to her family. They spoke to my Wife to change but she refuses. She said that God speaks through the Pastor. I am fed up! What can I do?
Favour, Lagos

Dear Favour,
I have heard stories like this before and they always annoy me. You have no business with the Pastor. If your wife is still interested in being your Wife,call her to order and leave that  Church, there are a million others to attend! A so-called Man of God should not interfere in members homes!

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