My Immature Boyfriend

I am dating an Omo-Mummy Guy. Not the type that’s a mumu, he’s actually sharp but I think he has an immaturity problem. He likes for us to hang out with his friends almost every Friday. From after work till late night hours they’ll drink and drink and smoke like crazy. He seems to be proud of me among his friends. He kisses me, touches me anywhere, in the presence of his guys! I don’t like it and when I tell him, he says I’m embarrassing him. I am not into his friends because I think they should have done all the tripping and drinking in school.
Apart from that, when we are alone we don’t really have much to say to each other. It’s as if he is more interested in me when his friends are around. All we do is get busy.
I’m tired of this guy, I need a real Man!


Hi Julz, don’t be afraid to walk out of a relationship that isn’t gratifying. If it’s not working, it’s not working. Cut him loose!


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