My Wife and the Pastor!

Dear Hilda, please help me! The Pastor in our church has taken over my home. Anything I tell my wife, she goes to ask and tell the Pastor, a…

3 times 3 (Part 4)

After two days of being together it was unanimous that the trip to the Epe resort was worth it. Chidera didn’t mind that Hafsat didn’t play …

Why Wives Cheat

She says: 1. Husband has not touched me in months/years. 2. Husband doesn’t make a move or he doesn’t respond to me. 3. He is al…

Why Women Cheat

From Single Women1. I’m looking for Mr. Right2. Boyfriend has plenty Love and no money.3. I’m not putting all my eggs in one bas…

Why Men Cheat

From the single Men 1. When will I sow my wild oats, if not now? 2. No reason- I just love women 3. I can’t get everything that freaks…

3 times 3 (Part 3)

Bellema’s ways were like a plot in a suspense/ who dunnit novel. As the night wore on and the tempo of the music seemed to be getting slower…

3 times 3 (Part 2)

Man 1: JohnMan 2: Chidera Man 3: Lolade “Wait, wait, wait” Bellema said. “Don’t sit down just like that ladies. Let me introduce you to thes…

3 times 3 (Part 1)

Lady 1: Bellema She was what Naija, call “yellow pawpaw”. Her complexion had been assisted by bleaching creams. She was daring. She could we…

The Package

“Excuse me please Ma, I’m looking for Miss Kemi. I have a delivery for her” said the delivery guy to Kemi. This looked lik…

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