Christmas gist

Lets play with a scenario:
Its Christmas time and your best friend just got dumped by her boyfriend. She is heart broken. Your boyfriend insists that you must spend Christmas eve and Christmas day with him in his Villa in Ikoyi.

You ask him if you can bring your friend along, to make her feel better. He says its fine.

Your boyfriend has a cook and steward . You don’t see any need to help them in the kitchen. Your friend who loves cooking decides to busy herself in the kitchen.

Your boyfriend who had been out, comes in and finds you watching a movie and so enraptured by it, that you didn’t hear him walk in.

He drops his stuff and goes to the kitchen. He sees your friend picking Ugu leaves and sweating profusely! He engages your friend in a chat. You are still watching the movie.
He goes back to where you are and screams your name before you realise he is back.

Oya, finish this and tell me who he thinks he should be with?

Merry Christmas!

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