Just have Sense!

We stopped expecting you to be domesticated, we just pray that you are. If that fails, we already have a plan B for that…

3 times 3 (Part 4)

After two days of being together it was unanimous that the trip to the Epe resort was worth it. Chidera didn’t mind that…

Why Wives Cheat

She says: 1. Husband has not touched me in months/years. 2. Husband doesn’t make a move or he doesn’t respon…

Why Women Cheat

From Single Women1. I’m looking for Mr. Right2. Boyfriend has plenty Love and no money.3. I’m not putting al…

Why Men Cheat

From the single Men 1. When will I sow my wild oats, if not now? 2. No reason- I just love women 3. I can’t get ev…

3 times 3 (Part 3)

Bellema’s ways were like a plot in a suspense/ who dunnit novel. As the night wore on and the tempo of the music seemed …


I envision Hilda’s Shoulder to be a relationship park-a place you go to learn, vent and share. I have another understanding of the word relationship -I don’t think it is for people dating only. A marriage is a relationship too, and one which needs great rela- tions in the SHIP called home!
Hilda’s Shoulder is a place where we virtually hold hands like - real friends should. If you want to come anonymously...we understand ..still come! Hilda’s shoulder is here for you!


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