7 Signs that he’s not that into You

  1. He prefers that you call him only at certain times of the day.
  2. He hasn’t introduced you to any of his friends after several months of your being together.
  3. His conversation with you is mostly to set up a rendezvous for sex.
  4. He doesn’t press to get to know your friend(s).
  5. He avoids conversations that would spell commitment.
  6. He prefers to come to your place, and does not encourage you to visit his without notice.
  7. He is always on the phone with his ex – “sorting things out”
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