A Perfect Love – Part 3

Dooshima, shifted her weight from one leg to the other for the 4th time. She was in Mr. Frank’s Office. H…

3 times 3 (Part 3)

Bellema’s ways were like a plot in a suspense/ who dunnit novel. As the night wore on and the tempo of th…

3 times 3 (Part 2)

Man 1: JohnMan 2: Chidera Man 3: Lolade “Wait, wait, wait” Bellema said. “Don’t sit down just like that l…

The Package

“Excuse me please Ma, I’m looking for Miss Kemi. I have a delivery for her” said the delivery guy to Kemi. This looked lik…

Loveless People

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